Monroe Fredrick Dean
1938 ~ 2016
Monroe Fredrick Dean, our beloved, caring, kind and passionate Husband, Father, Grandfather, Brother, Uncle, Cousin and Friend passed away peacefully due to complications of Alzheimer’s Disease on Easter Sunday 3.27.2016 surrounded by His Loving Wife, Linda Dean and his 2 Children, Randy and Melani as well as his Granddaughter, Sophi. He fought a courageous battle with Alzheimer’s for many years. In the very difficult end stages he was brave and as feisty as ever.
Always there through the good and bad times, especially the past few years, He always had love and care around him. There was always one of us with Him, to make sure He was peaceful, happy and loved. His wife, Linda was his primary caregiver, and as promised, She wouldn’t put him in a Nursing Home. He was very grateful and defended Her always, even in the final stages. He loves Her and protects Her, He would lay His head on Her shoulder and hold Her hand showing Her how much He loved Her and appreciated Her. She and their 2 Children were dedicated assisting with his care until the end.
Monroe is survived by his wife, Linda, five Children, Melani Dean, Randy Dean, Fredrick Dean, Richard Dean, (Lisa), Hope Dean and Sister, Nancy Meadowcroft. Nine Grandchildren, and numerous distant relatives. Preceded in death by his Mother, Daisy Katherine Bratton Dean, Father, Earnest Slemp Dean, Brothers, Kyle Sr Dean (Carol) and Frank Dean (Carole). He has especially missed his Parents and two Brothers. Whom hopefully are sitting with him by a lake, fishing and free of suffering with the debilitating disease in this life.
Monroe was born 9.16.1938 to Loving Parents, Earnest Slemp Dean and Daisy Katherine Bratton Dean. He was the second child of four.
He married Jean Christensen, which ended in divorce. During this marriage he became the loving, proud Father of Fredrick, Richard (Lisa) and Hope Dean. Four Grandchildren, David, Bronson, Morgan and Madelyn.
In 1969 He met and married the love of his life, soulmate, loving companion and best friend, Linda Nelson Dean. They spent 47 years together and during their marriage, He became a proud, loving Father of Randy and Melani Dean whom were very devoted to their Father. And five beautiful Grandchildren, Frank, Erica, RJ, Mackenzie and Sophi. RJ, Mackenzie and Sophi were all very devoted to their Grandfather. Monroe was very close to his Grandchildren, whom were there for him through the toughest years of HIs life as Alzheimer’s continued to progress.
His Grandchildren, Mackenzie, RJ and Sophi spent a lot of time with their Grandfather ‘Papa’ going for rides to the mountains, fishing, camping, golfing, artwork, drums and many other activities when his condition was a bit better. He loved Nascar and rarely ever missed a race. Many times going to the racetrack was a family affair. He loved to play golf, country music and watching ‘The Price is Right’, ‘Family Feud’, football and other sports. His Indian motorcycle and 1957 Chevy pickup truck were his pride and joy. The last few years, Sophi would pretend to be His nurse and gave him a stuffed monkey, which He loved to interact with. She also gave him big lego blocks, and played with Him. He would look at the newspaper for hours with his wife, Linda. Mackenzie and RJ would visit Him and enjoy ice cream with him. He also enjoyed spending His time watching them in school programs and sports events. He loved to go down to the pool with them and watch them swim.
Monroe also leaves behind a very special Family by marriage to Linda, his wife. They have always welcomed Him into the Family and given so much love, kindness and compassion. He had many special and fun times with them and they have been extremely helpful.
Monroe was a good man, wonderful and sometimes feisty. He loves His Children and Grandchildren unconditionally and would give them all the love and moral support they needed. However, did his very best to teach them good/hard work ethics and strong morals. A remarkable hardworking man. He was very proud when He was hired at Salt Lake County. He loved His job and everyone He worked with. He learned how to operate all heavy equipment. His favorite was the backhoe, which remained his specialty. He was very proud to be chosen as Employee of the Month. He loved his work and would probably have worked as long as possible if He didn’t also suffer from CMT, a degenerative nerve disease in the legs, feet, and hands, causing Him to retire early. He will be dearly missed… until we meet again.
A special thanks to Dr. Robert Powel for his excellent, warmhearted years of care for Monroe. And to His staff for their sympathetic help with Monroe. A sincere thanks to the numerous Salt Lake County Programs contributing to His special needs. In addition thank you to Captain Jim DeGering & team from Unified Fire, Dr. Mataoa and staff (ER) at Jordan Valley Hospital. As well as the Dr. and team’s effort after He was admitted and shortly passed. And to Our two Children Randy and Melani for their unlimited devotion, love and patience, helping with His care and special needs until the very end.
On Saturday April 16th, 2016 at 10:30am – 11:15am there will be a Celebration of Life followed by a light lunch at 11:30am – 12:30pm at Cornerstone Church (1175 w. 600 n.) In lieu of flowers, please donate to Alzheimer’s research and/or MDA (Muscular Dystrophy Association) in Monroe Dean’s name.
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Dear Dad,
I miss coming into your room and feisty fight to let me change you. I love you and miss seeing you on Fridays. And coming from my program everyday. I know you’re peaceful and at ease and know you will watch over all of us.
I love you’ Dadio’… we’ll see each other again someday and I know you are with me everyday.
Your Son, Randy Dean
Hello Dad, you are finally at peace, you are now free of pain drama and strife. You couldn’t ask for a better day to Ascend… on the day of Ascension. I want to thank you for visiting me on Good Friday. Nothing can touch that, but God.. I got your communication I know you love me. I’m sorry I wasn’t thereI more in the past. it was just kind of hard from so far away. I am thankful for the times I could afford to come visit you. I’m glad you had the people around you to take care of you while you went on your journey to the heavens. I also want to thank you for being in your bloodline which has a built-in work ethic which I have and I know it’s because of me being your daughter. I also learned this from my mother whom you loved so dearly. I’m sorry things didn’t work out. You’ve done your best to do all you can for those you have fostered thank you so much. Now is your time to play and be in joy and fish whenever you want. and don’t forget the races, I listen to them every Sunday and think of you. I love you very much.
beckThis is my Grandpa “gumpa” as i would call him I love him very much we were very close I miss him very much I know he is in a better place. And I know he is watching over all of his family I love you grandpa I know I will see you again. Love, Mackenzie Hollen
Rest easy my uncle.
My deepest condolence to the the family. I worked with Monroe at Salt Lake County and can remember when he hired on and came to find out that he lived down the street from me and many times we would take turns driving to work and at at times we would stop a Willy’s Bar for a cold beer. Rest in Peace my friend
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Thank you for sharing your memories.
Hello Dad… Happy Father’s Day! I miss you so much… It is strange to not have you here to celebrate. We will never forget you & will send you our thoughts and love always. I had a very vivid dream about you… I got your message. We are going to let some balloons go up in the sky, and are planting forget me nots in honor of you. I believe you are near, your spirit is very comforting and loving.
Love you for eternity! Your Daughter, Melani xoxo
Sophi wants to say something…’Dear Papa, if you can and God will let you, will you please come to visit us. I love you! xoxo love, Sophi’
Monroe, I have cried a million tears for you and I’m sure they’ll never stop. Happy Father’s Day my Love! Oh how I love and miss you every second of every day. I feel so empty and lonely without you. They say that it gets easier with time, but so far it only gets harder. Monroe, I know you’re in a better and more beautiful place and healthy again… please tell my heart that. I also know you’re our beautiful, special Guardian Angel and with us all of the time. We feel your presence always. I know we will see you again. Have fun with your Mom and Dad and Brothers. Don’t ever forget what a wonderful, loving Husband, Father, Papa & Grandpa You are and always will be… I’ll never stop Loving you through Eternity. Don’t give up on me… I’ll see you soon.
Your Loving Wife, Linda xoxoxoxo
Dear dad, i really dont know what to sa but , i miss you and would give anything to go in your and mom room and help change you or just pick you up againand move you to the chear , dad if you only new how much mom miss you,I fill here pain all the time , anyways i realy hop you could come to seher tonight , I WILL SEE YOU SOON ,No worries i got this ….. your son and buddy . I have to go for now . Peace dad
My Dearest Special Monroe, Happy Anniversary my darling Loving Husband!!! I fell in love with you the very first day we ever met and I’ve never stopped Loving you. I never ever will!… I only wish you were still here — silly me. I just knew I’d have You right here with me forever & ever & ever. You’re here with me, I know — You’re watching over all of us, but I soooo want to give you a big hug and kiss!!! They say time heals all, but not really — the tears and missing you are constantly there… I’m sure that will never change. I know we’ll be together again someday — In the meantime, don’t ever forget how very, very much I love you and miss you and how very, very much Randy, Melani, Sophi, RJ, Mackenzie & Bella love you and miss you.
Forty – seven years is a long, long time and then suddenly one day — you’re by my side in spirit and watching over All of us. However, I love you and miss you soooo very, very much, and wish you were here. I am soooo lucky for the great care and support you gave to me. Thank you Honey!!!! I’ll love you for eternity and I’ll see you soon!!!! We’re all looking forward to that day!!!!
I Love You with All of my heart and soul forever & ever.
Your Loving Wife Always, Linda
P.S. You taught Melani, Randy & Sophi well — they take excellent care of me and RJ and Mackenzie are always there for me. You taught them well too.
My Beloved Father,
I miss you SO much Dad… I know you are at peace and free of all suffering in this life. I now have a beautiful Guardian Angel watching over Me and my Daughter… she loves you with all Her heart and misses spending time with you. After you passed,,, She blew you a kiss and said ‘I Love You Papa… I will miss you.’ You will always and forever be in Our thoughts, hearts & prayers. Love to Eternity… ‘Daddy’ ~ Until We meet again. ~